One of the most important questions you can ask your spouse or your child is, “Do you feel loved?”
Feelings come and go.
Love is not a feeling.
Love is a decision.
Love is not given for good behavior.
Love is not withheld as punishment.
Love is given whether or not it is deserved.
You know you truly love someone when the act of loving that person is more important to you than how that person makes you feel.
Do you want to live a real love story? Select a mate that knows how to love you beyond their self. And pick someone you are willing to love for a lifetime, no matter what. And when you have children, share that same kind of unconditional and secure love with them.
If real love sounds hard, look at Jesus Christ. He loved us so much that he willingly gave his life and died for us – even for those that did not believe in him, that betrayed him, and that spit on him. He gave his life for the undeserved because he loved them even though they gave him nothing in return. Jesus’ love is perfect love.
Some people say they would die for their spouse or for their child, but yet they live every day selfishly for themselves. How do you compare?
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